My Boyfriend's Ex Just Married

[das_nut]

I went home last night and my mom talked to me about him. I told her everything and it felt great actually. She said I should dump him before I get caught in a point of no turning back.. Like if he gets me pregnant or something.

I haven't gone back to his place for almost 24 hours and I have received 3 calls and 12 messages from him. He was crying on the phone begging for me to come back. I don't know what to do.

It's my advice to stay away from him and erase the messages. He's attempting to regain control. You've already seen pleading. It's not unlikely that he'll threaten harming you, someone you love or even harming himself in an attempt to regain control.

It's easier to erase the messages and cut off all contact.

 

[SummerRain]

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[ledboots]

Coralyn, I hope everything is working out better for you.

 

[Ann Chovie]

Hi Coralyn
I hope this too. Is it possible for you to let us know that you ok? as we are hoping that you have managed to sort this situation out and move on.