How can I find a vegan GF?

I have done a lot of volunteering over the years. TBH in my experience, it is not that great at making long term friends. Yes you can make friends whilst you are there, but once it is over the friendship ends. One of my jobs was working in a charity shop and I met a lot of girls, but I did not have a good income so could not go dating. Now I have a job I want to go dating. I want to enjoy myself and do this on the weekends. Sometimes when I am in town I get the urge to talk to a girl, maybe I will just act on it, and see what happens. Perhaps I can convert her if I am lucky.

I do have an online crush, but she lives quite far from me. An animal lover but not a vegan. If she goes vegan maybe I will take it more seriously.
If the girl you have a crush on is not vegan, she is not an animal supporter, either. She must be wild, so think a little bit!
 
I would try babysitting a little kid under the age of five. The younger the better. Take the kid to the places you normally like to go. The girls will see your nurturing side and go wild. (Keep in mind I am a little autistic.) When I was young, I would babysit very young family members and go places with them. The girls would always try and talk to the cute family member and not me. I was so stupid. They would talk to the cute family member to have an opportunity to be around me.

Wasn't there a movie where that was the premise. I'm thinking maybe Sandler?
But IMHO a cute little dog would be easier.
 
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A woman is kind of like a dog at an animal shelter. You choose what is right for you and move on. If I was young again, I would not worry about perfect. I would look for good enough. At my age, if my wife died, I would get a cute b!tch at an animal shelter to replace her. I would make certain that the dog was neutered and kid friendly. That would be good enough for me.

I still recommend babysitting a little kid and taking him or her places. The ladies will start stalking you like crazy. Carrying a diaper in your back pocket is an aphrodisiac for women. If you can't borrow a kid, borrow a dog.

I think that women worry about creepy men. But, when you are carrying a little kid around on your shoulders, you are not in pickup chicks mode. You are in take care of little kid mode. The girls will see you hug, hold, and kiss the kid in a nonsexual way. They will think "gosh if I could have somebody love me like that I would be so happy."

The following is my personal opinion. And it is only an opinion. I would never use a dating site to meet new people. I read somewhere that the success rates for these sites are astronomically low. It does not seem natural to me.

I would also recommend that you don't be shy. Talk to lots of people. I remember going going on a work related conference with a lonely man. There was this big social drinking thing in the evening. I told the guy, "Point to the lady you want to talk to and I will go get her for you." He goes "You got to be kidding me." I was absolutely sober. I am also a little autistic. He pointed. I walked over to chat with her. I said, "I would like to make a small request. My friend over there is a little shy. You are obviously very beautiful and probably have lots of boyfriends. Still, could you chat with my friend for a bit." The rest as they say is history.

I know that many of you ladies look at my avatar and go "Duh. This guy is gorgeous. He has a beer keg instead of a six pack." My baseball cap, two dollar cigar, and love of Pabst Blue Ribbon never did it for the ladies. It is the personality.
 
I just want to go dating. I live in London. I was thinking of chatting to a random girl on the street, but she is unlikely to be vegan. Any tips?
I also opt for young, beautiful, and vegan guys. A hard thing to find!
 
Try to avoid getting arrested!
The whole issue with dating is that boys are generally very stupid, they enjoy “games” and pornography, and they are too old for me! It is not my stuff! Besides, I must have something vital to look at…
 
If you go dating on a street, you will most probably meet another stupid girl. Another average idiot. She may be "beautiful", but it is all you can bank on.
 
How about having t-shirts made that say "Single, Available, Vegan" and wearing them to the park where you take the little kids to play and to places where you volunteer, to work........you'd be a hit!
 
London has every kind of person you can imagine, surely it can't be that hard. I'm sure that there are lots of events as well as going on every year right? Maybe try to find someone who is just vegetarian. If you could do that your options are much greater lol
 
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If you chat to a random girl on the street, she may be beautiful but she wouldn't probably be a girl of your dreams nor vegan. Go to vegan forums and talk to the girls you take an interest in!


I agree with this point as you will not suppose get your dream girl on the street as you only take help from the vegan community where you can share your vegan recipes and try to explore more in that.
 
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