danakscully64
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to both MLP and Heather.
**** cancer!!! I'm so sick of this disease consuming the lives of such amazing beings.
I know! Me too.
to both MLP and Heather.
**** cancer!!! I'm so sick of this disease consuming the lives of such amazing beings.
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This (the dilute calico cat) is Ayla. She died in the early morning hours.
Ayla was a feral cat who my sister trapped seven years ago. She had six kittens at the time. My sister managed to trap five of the kittens. One kitten consistently eluded her and eventually disappeared. Ayla came to live with me, and her kittens stayed with my sister.
Ayla always remained semi feral. Of late, she would sit on the arm of my chair while I opened cat food cans, as long as I was careful not to look at her and pretended she wasn't there.
She had surgery for mammary cancer last August. A tendril of the tumor had reached the lymph nodes, which the vet also removed. She made a good recovery from the surgery, and I had hopes that her recovery was a full one. Late yesterday, she was lying on the kitchen floor and did not move away from me when I walked close by her a couple of times. When I reached down to touch her and she didn't run, I knew it was serious and went to get the carrier. When I lifted her to put her in the carrier, I could feel the fluid in her abdomen. I took her to the U of I emergency clinic. She started going into cardiac arrest, and I told them to help her die quickly. I hope she found some comfort in my presence.
Ayla loved Zen, the orange tabby in the photo. For years, she was quite lovesick over him, following him around. Hers was a quiet presence in this house, but there will always be an Ayla shaped emptiness in this family.
Thanks. I'm more worried about the remaining fish. The last two have died in the same weird way, and I don't want it to happen to him too.
Granted, they're all very old, so that could be it.
I think it's especially hard to lose one of a bonded pair, whether they be mates or friends - in addition to the grief one feels, there's the worry about the grief of the survivor.
How old is your catfish? I missed your post about the white one. for you.
In a way, I am glad that Nick passed before Amelia. While she has a fierce independent streak, he was completely dependent on her. He would not be taking things as well. I can tell she misses him, though. I have a plush rabbit that I am going to give her tomorrow (going to wash it first); I know a few people in my rescue group have had rabbits who were comforted by a plush rabbit after their bond mate passed. It is only slightly smaller than Nick and even has lop ears.
In a way, I am glad that Nick passed before Amelia. While she has a fierce independent streak, he was completely dependent on her. He would not be taking things as well. I can tell she misses him, though. I have a plush rabbit that I am going to give her tomorrow (going to wash it first); I know a few people in my rescue group have had rabbits who were comforted by a plush rabbit after their bond mate passed. It is only slightly smaller than Nick and even has lop ears.