A long time ago, in an entirely different topic, it was posited that only the abusive partner in any abusive relationship is, quote, "a pathetic loser".
(That may, or may not, have been entirely dependant on the abusive partner being male. That was never clarified.)
Does anyone who would not qualify as the rather unkindly put 'pathetic loser' ever get into an abusive relationship in the first place?
If so, how so?
Can either partner in an abusive relationship in any way be seen as a 'winner'?
If not then how can it be possible for an abusive relationship to consist of anything but two 'pathetic losers'?
If an abusive relation can only consist of two 'pathetic losers' then is there any reason why one of those pathetic losers deserves more help/sympathy/support for their particular problem(s) than the other?
Not all questions need to be answered in one go, obviously ...
(That may, or may not, have been entirely dependant on the abusive partner being male. That was never clarified.)
Does anyone who would not qualify as the rather unkindly put 'pathetic loser' ever get into an abusive relationship in the first place?
If so, how so?
Can either partner in an abusive relationship in any way be seen as a 'winner'?
If not then how can it be possible for an abusive relationship to consist of anything but two 'pathetic losers'?
If an abusive relation can only consist of two 'pathetic losers' then is there any reason why one of those pathetic losers deserves more help/sympathy/support for their particular problem(s) than the other?
Not all questions need to be answered in one go, obviously ...