I have been trying to learn about plant families. One big family is the mustards. Some mustards have a stronger mustard flavor, such as the curly greens labeled "mustard greens" at a supermarket near me. One of the more mild mustard family members in my experience is bok choy. At a local Asian market I discovered greens labeled "y u choy" ( the y and the u are one word but autocorrect won't let me write it). I have found that all greens loose a lot of their heat or bite when boiled and drained. Yes you probably loose some nutrients that way but if it helps your tummy it may be worth it.
Another plant family includes carrot, celery, parsnip, parsley and I think also dill, cilantro, fennel. A farmer told me that parsley is actually as good or better than spinach for antioxidants and phytonutrients. Makes sense to me, they are a dark leafy green if you want to call them that.
To my knowledge, lettuce, radichio, and dandelion and thistles, sunflowers, and tumbleweeds are in a plant order together.
The spinach family is most famous for oxalates. Spinach, chard, beets, and my favorite, a weed called lambsquarters (which often has less oxalates than some of its cultivated cousins)s, and I believe also sorrels are in that "order". The frozen spinach in the grocery freezer has been boiled and drained. A lot of older recipes tell you to boil and drain your spinach and even squeeze it dry before adding to, say, lasagna. Probably the boiling and draining cuts down on the oxalates if that's a concern for you.
If you want to think outside the box there are a couple of weeds in the carnation/pinks " order" that I enjoy. One is purslane, which does have oxalates so if the oxalates are truly an irritant for you, you would want to try smaller amounts. Another edible weed is chickweed, but it has saponins that can cause digestive upset when eaten in quantity.
Stinging nettle is edible. You have to be careful collecting it obviously (I use scissors and gloves and/or chopstics and a paper bag), but once boil they loose their sting.
One more consideration is to start with small amount of any new foods to give your body time to adjust.
All plants are very good sources of the trace mineral boron compared to animal based and a lot of people say we need enough boron to use our calcium.