Well I am quoting my own posts, a bit weird , but anyway, this is why I go out to the kitchen (most places )to talk it through with the chef , keep it polite ,be clear about your requirements , but keep it to the point , call him /her by their first name . ....plus you can read their reaction .
Miss Davies said the waiter "went to talk to someone" and returned with an offer of the dish without the coleslaw and sauce.
Burger death woman 'checked with waiter'
Shahida Shahid, 18, suffered an allergic reaction from the buttermilk-marinated chicken burger she ate at the Almost Famous restaurant in Manchester.
She later collapsed "very suddenly", the city's coroners court was told.
The jury heard when she was taken ill, she was given an anti-allergy injection by a friend, but it was "just" out of date and had no effect.
Ms Shahid, from Worsley, Salford, went to the restaurant in the Great Northern Warehouse on Peter Street with four friends on 9 January 2015.
The University of Manchester student - who was studying for a masters in maths - had a dairy allergy and discussed the menu with the waiter before her meal, the court heard.