Trouble in relationship due to ideology difference.

[x1234]

I am a strict vegan and coming from India where we have lots of respect from cows and other animals.
I found a partner in who is white and have some health condition due to that she have to eat eggs everyday and take medicine which have beef particles.
I suggest to her to eat everything which is necessary for her health but don't kiss me then without brushing her teeth and she feels discrimination and thinks this is not possible.

Please help us here with your suggestion because I really like her but at the same time I feel really hurt by this feeling that by kissing her I am being part of animal brutality and also culturally very very inappropriate.

 

[silva]

I am a strict vegan and coming from India where we have lots of respect from cows and other animals.
I found a partner in who is white and have some health condition due to that she have to eat eggs everyday and take medicine which have beef particles.
I suggest to her to eat everything which is necessary for her health but don't kiss me then without brushing her teeth and she feels discrimination and thinks this is not possible.

Please help us here with your suggestion because I really like her but at the same time I feel really hurt by this feeling that by kissing her I am being part of animal brutality and also culturally very very inappropriate.

 

[Col]

To make fair you could suggest cleaning teeth together and explain it is not because of nationality,
If she thinks it is not possible still I don't think it is accurate to call you discriminative.

 

[VegetableLiker]

WOAH! This is actually so crazy! I had a girlfriend who dumped me a while back, and one of the reasons she gave was that she HATED tasting vegetables in my mouth when we would make out. Seems like you are having the opposite problem, LOL!!!

 

[LettuceBe]

Ah yes. That illness that means you have to eat eggs everyday sure does seem to get about. I hope one day they get around to naming it.

 

[Lou]

I am a strict vegan and coming from India where we have lots of respect from cows and other animals.
I found a partner in who is white and have some health condition due to that she have to eat eggs everyday

no such health condition. There is nothing necessary or essential in eggs. There are various plant based foods that contain similar nutrients. Except for maybe choline and our bodies generally produce all we need. if somehow she is deficient in choline or D she can get get them from supplement or other plant based foods. The only thing you can get from eggs and not from plant based foods is B12. And that's true for every vegan.

and take medicine which have beef particles.

I'm sure you can't detect the "beef particles" that are in her medicine on her breath.

I suggest to her to eat everything which is necessary for her health but don't kiss me then without brushing her teeth and she feels discrimination and thinks this is not possible.

I think I might be a little put off if someone required me to brush my teeth before kissing but I could get used to it. IF I really wanted a kiss.

Please help us here with your suggestion because I really like her but at the same time I feel really hurt by this feeling that by kissing her I am being part of animal brutality and also culturally very very inappropriate.

so my suggestion is to get over it. We are vegan because it's a way to be compasionate. I don't see how requiring her to brush her teeth is an act of compassion.