Sooo, hi, I'm new. Both here and in my vegan transition. Actually I decided to go vegan two weeks ago. And since then I had a few conversations about this with my family and few closest friends I wanted to know.
I could dismiss most of their worries (like protein and other type of deficiencies), but one of my best friends, though really supportive, not that understanding of some aspect of this. Veganism and a vegan friend is really new to her. Few days ago we had a talk about veganism for the second time and she brought up things that I couldn't really answer well. Maybe you could help me with that? (I love her, she is really smart and kind, but I can tell that this vegan thing is really weird for her, so kudos for supporting me still.)
One of the things she said is that she doesn't like ("angry") vegans. I told her that I could understand them as there is so much cruelty going on with animals and some people are more sensitive about it then others and they chose activism as a way of expressing it. She said she couldn't (understand angry vegans). So I went on saying that those people are minority and most of them are nice people, as in there are mean people among every kind of groups, not just vegans, so it's not right to judge all of them based on that. We still continued on talking about stuff like cruelty against animals.
And I don't remember how, but she said something like "(if everyone went vegan) those animals (livestock) can't live without humans. They would die in the wild alone"
And I honestly was speachless and ended up mumbling without thinking that I don't think so and that they wouldn't die and that there would be only fewer of them (as in we wouldn't have to force animals to multiply all the time, so there wouldn't be that many of them, I mean), but honestly I don't know... I don't agree with her on that, but I don't know how to explain it. My knowledge about veganism is still a bit lacking. I want to explain these things better for her...
What do you think? What would you answer in the same situation?
(Also please forgive me if my english is bad.)
I could dismiss most of their worries (like protein and other type of deficiencies), but one of my best friends, though really supportive, not that understanding of some aspect of this. Veganism and a vegan friend is really new to her. Few days ago we had a talk about veganism for the second time and she brought up things that I couldn't really answer well. Maybe you could help me with that? (I love her, she is really smart and kind, but I can tell that this vegan thing is really weird for her, so kudos for supporting me still.)
One of the things she said is that she doesn't like ("angry") vegans. I told her that I could understand them as there is so much cruelty going on with animals and some people are more sensitive about it then others and they chose activism as a way of expressing it. She said she couldn't (understand angry vegans). So I went on saying that those people are minority and most of them are nice people, as in there are mean people among every kind of groups, not just vegans, so it's not right to judge all of them based on that. We still continued on talking about stuff like cruelty against animals.
And I don't remember how, but she said something like "(if everyone went vegan) those animals (livestock) can't live without humans. They would die in the wild alone"
And I honestly was speachless and ended up mumbling without thinking that I don't think so and that they wouldn't die and that there would be only fewer of them (as in we wouldn't have to force animals to multiply all the time, so there wouldn't be that many of them, I mean), but honestly I don't know... I don't agree with her on that, but I don't know how to explain it. My knowledge about veganism is still a bit lacking. I want to explain these things better for her...
What do you think? What would you answer in the same situation?
(Also please forgive me if my english is bad.)