- Joined
- Jun 4, 2012
- Reaction score
- 19,493
- Age
- 64
- Location
- I'm liek, in Cali, dude.
- Lifestyle
- Vegetarian
This is something I'll never understand. There are people who absolutely flat out refuse charity, even when they desperately need it. They get offers of money, clothes, food, or help with their house or business or whatever. A lot of these people live in the conservative American South. I know pride is a factor, but when their kid is sick and they can't pay a doctor, they still refuse offers of help.
I also know that I live in a country where toughness, resilience, stand on your own two feet and fend for yourself, independence and so on are long-held values that are admired and even held sacred. But again, when you really, desperately need a hand-out and you refuse it, you're only hurting yourself. And possibly your loved ones.
Just my opinion.
I also know that I live in a country where toughness, resilience, stand on your own two feet and fend for yourself, independence and so on are long-held values that are admired and even held sacred. But again, when you really, desperately need a hand-out and you refuse it, you're only hurting yourself. And possibly your loved ones.
Just my opinion.