For me , l do not like sitting next to people who are eating animal flesh , so l don't go to lunches or dinners socially , unless it is at least a vegetarian affair . I do not wish to see or smell cooked animal flesh , particularly right next to me , as l find it disgusting to my senses .. As it would be to most people to have human flesh ( or dog flesh) on a dinner plate near them ..
No-one is obligated to explain themselves , but when asked , l just say that to me animals are not food , and l use the human-flesh example to convey what it feels like to be around it . Most people get that . If they don't , that's fine - they don't have to understand or relate to my ethics or values , any more than l have to relate to theirs .
All we have to do is be true to ourselves , stand firm in that truth , smile and be kind ( even to people who might make fun of your choices) and just Be the best version of yourself you can possibly be .. Never allow yourself to be dragged into a war of words or ideas with anyone , as this only alienates people from each other and creates division and hostility .. It never wins over any converts , either .
It's always wise to state your case with softness , kindness , and calmness , then move on .. If you appear calm and joyful , no matter what others say or think , that is the best ad for your life-choices , and others will probably be envious of your peaceful state ..
Veganism is , after all , about being peaceful towards all beings - so how can you convey that from a disturbed , upset or bothered state ? It can only be truly conveyed from a peaceful state .
Stay calm and live that peace , and be blessed , everyone !
Joy and love to all , Blissful x