- Jun 20, 2018
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Yeah... I also hate that. Everyone now-a-days, but men especially have a lot of pressure to be hypersexual. That it's somehow "manly" to have a high libido. I don't get that. It can also be very damaging.I don't like the stereotype is that sex is just something men enjoy
And women sometimes, when they say no, won't be believed because it's assumed that women have to be modest or whatever and they are just playing hard-to-get. Ugh, what the hell. No means no. Always. And some women are very much into intimacy, it's not just a masculine trait. Being into intimacy shouldn't be something for women to be ashamed of.
Oh well... Gender is a social construct anyways.
I have been thinking about these things a lot in my life. I thought that my asexuality was somehow a result of being "suppressed" or "traumatised" or whatever. I was in an self-denial and tried to fit into the heteronormative nightmare.