I came across this blog post that talks about what it's like to be a western (i.e. American in this case) woman living in Japan. Western males (esp. nerds!) have the time of their lives, whereas the women ... :
Read the full blog post: No Sex in the City: What It’s Like to Be Female and Foreign in Japan (vagabondish.com - Reannon Muth, March, 2013)
I was walking from work one Friday evening when it dawned on me that I’d been in Japan for nine months. I inwardly congratulated myself for having beat the odds. I’d proven my boss wrong. But as I trudged home to face another evening of reruns of The Office and left-over sushi from 7-11, I wondered at what cost. Most days I felt unattractive, unwanted and worst of all, unfemale. When not even a short skirt or slinky top attracted more than a passing glance and even construction workers, who could usually be counted on for a leer, regarded me with bored, blank expressions, I felt like a Martian. And very, very alone. Perhaps I’d been wrong not to leave when the last shipload of foreign women sailed away to brighter horizons and better dating odds.
Because the truth is that Tokyo’s a tough city to be single … if you’re, you know, a Western woman.
Read the full blog post: No Sex in the City: What It’s Like to Be Female and Foreign in Japan (vagabondish.com - Reannon Muth, March, 2013)