I was just reading an article by a psychologist about incels, their challenges and advice on how they can overcome their issues.
Basically, incels have it the wrong way around: sex/romance is something that can come as a result of living a full and rich life, it's not something you need to get before you can start living a full and rich life. You have to "get your house in order" before you invite a partner into it. While there are aspect related to attraction that you can't change, like your height, there are other aspects that you can change. So work on those.
Anyway, incels - a bunch of sad losers or a sad reality of the times? Let's hear what you think!
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Basically, incels have it the wrong way around: sex/romance is something that can come as a result of living a full and rich life, it's not something you need to get before you can start living a full and rich life. You have to "get your house in order" before you invite a partner into it. While there are aspect related to attraction that you can't change, like your height, there are other aspects that you can change. So work on those.
Anyway, incels - a bunch of sad losers or a sad reality of the times? Let's hear what you think!
(Anyone wishing to make an anonymous contribution to the discussion, remember you can tick the 'Anonymous' box.)
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