I like it when my cats sleep with me and I miss Thor so much because he was always with me at bedtime.
When I adopted Bogart, I was hoping he would fill the void, but he is so different and such a character in his own rite. Many nights I end up in the spare room due to the husband's snoring...it's loud...really, really loud. Bogart was supposed to be "my" cat but for whatever reason, he took a liking to my husband. Normally, Bogart will follow me to the other room, but always ends up crying by the bedroom door because he wants to go back to the bed where hubby is. This annoys me to no end, but what can I do.
New kitty, Benjamin, is still a little weird. As affectionate as he is and wanting to be petted/massaged constantly, he won't come on the bed at all. Most nights he stays in the living room by himself. Except, just recently, he wants to be where Bogart is, so yep, you guessed it...he ends up in the room with the hubby too.
So Mr. Not-So-Much-Cat-Lover gets both cats and I have none.
Cybil has her own room/bed downstairs. She doesn't like the other cats and sleeps at least 23 hours a day, anyway (she's old). She is very happy being by herself, especially at night.
I have to say I sleep much better without any cats in my bed.